Weddings are becoming more personal, more intentional, and more reflective of what truly matters to couples today. One of the most beautiful shifts in recent years is the rise of the micro-wedding—a celebration that focuses on connection, authenticity, and presence rather than scale.
Micro-weddings strip away the pressure and expectations of traditional events and make space for moments that feel deeply meaningful. They’re not simply “small weddings.” They are weddings that prioritize intimacy, feeling, and experience over production.
If you’re considering a micro-wedding, here’s a helpful guide to understanding what they are, what makes them special, and how to plan one with ease and joy.
What Is a Micro-Wedding?
A micro-wedding is a fully planned wedding ceremony and celebration, but on a much smaller scale—typically involving 10–30 guests (though some couples prefer even fewer).
Unlike an elopement, which often involves just the couple and two witnesses, micro-weddings still include some traditional elements—such as a ceremony, vows, and a small gathering afterward—but in a way that feels intentional, relaxed, and personal.
Micro-weddings are often chosen for three reasons:
Authenticity: Couples want their day to feel meaningful, not scripted.
Connection: With fewer guests, there’s more time to engage with each person.
Flexibility: Smaller weddings open the door to creative locations, unique experiences, and simpler planning.
No matter the reason, micro-weddings give couples freedom—to celebrate their way.
Step 1: Start With Your Vision
Before choosing a location or making any bookings, take time together to imagine what the day feels like.
Consider questions like:
Do we want the atmosphere to be cozy, adventurous, elegant, or laid-back?
Are we drawn to indoor spaces, outdoor landscapes, or a meaningful family setting?
Do we picture sunset by a lake, a warm backyard gathering, a forest clearing, or a local vineyard?
How many guests feel “just right” for us?
Micro-weddings are built around intention. When you define your vision first, every decision afterward becomes easier and more aligned with what matters most to you both.
Step 2: Choose a Meaningful Location
With a micro-wedding, almost anything is possible. You’re not restricted by traditional venues or large guest counts, which means you can choose a spot that reflects your relationship and values.
Some favourites include:
Outdoor Spaces
Lakeside viewpoints
Vineyards and orchards
Beaches or riverside spots
Forest trails and mountain lookouts
Parks and gardens
Indoor & Private Spaces
A beautiful Airbnb
A family cabin or backyard
A boutique winery
A small community hall
An art gallery or restaurant with a private room
Smaller weddings give you the freedom to explore unique or intimate settings that a larger group couldn’t accommodate.
Tip: For outdoor weddings, check whether a permit is required. Most are easy and inexpensive to obtain.
Step 3: Select Your Officiant
An officiant plays a central role in a micro-wedding. With fewer guests and a more personal atmosphere, the ceremony becomes the emotional heart of the day.
A great officiant will help you:
Understand the legal requirements for getting married in BC
Personalize your ceremony wording
Assist with vow-writing
Include family, cultural elements, or readings
Create a ceremony flow that feels relaxed and heartfelt
At Cherished Ceremonies, we specialize in intimate weddings and elopements—helping couples craft ceremonies that truly reflect who they are.
Step 4: Build a Guest List You Feel Good About
Micro-weddings work best when the guest list reflects genuine closeness. This isn’t the event for acquaintances or long-lost relatives—this is the space for the people who matter most.
A helpful guideline:
If you wouldn’t share a private celebration or a meaningful life milestone with someone, they probably don’t belong on your micro-wedding guest list.
Once your list is set, notify guests with simple invitations—paper or digital. The tone should feel personal and warm.
Step 5: Plan Your Ceremony Details
This is where your wedding begins to take shape. Micro-weddings thrive on personalization, so feel free to include elements that feel right for your relationship.
Consider:
Personal vows (micro-weddings are perfect for them)
A symbolic ritual, such as handfasting, unity candles, stone blessings, or cultural traditions
Incorporating children, friends, or pets
A meaningful reading or poem
Live music or a curated playlist
Because the group is small, your ceremony can feel unrushed and deeply connected.
Step 6: Add Thoughtful Touches
You don’t need elaborate décor to create a beautiful wedding—small touches often feel more intentional and visually striking.
Some ideas:
A bouquet and boutonniere
A floral arch or minimal ceremony setup
Simple greenery or candles
A cozy blanket basket for cooler seasons
A signature drink or small grazing board
Choose elements that support your wedding’s style without overwhelming it.
Step 7: Celebrate in Your Own Way
Your “reception” can be as simple or creative as you like. Micro-weddings invite freedom and flexibility.
Popular celebrations include:
Dinner at a favourite restaurant
A backyard meal with family
A small catered gathering
Champagne and desserts at sunset
A picnic with charcuterie and music
A private chef experience for you and your guests
The beauty of a micro-wedding is that it doesn’t need to follow anyone else’s rules.
Step 8: Enjoy the Day
Micro-weddings create the space to slow down, breathe, and fully experience the moment. There’s no rush, no production schedule, and no pressure—just the two of you, present and connected, with the people who matter most.
Lean into the simplicity, the emotion, and the joy. These are the moments you’ll remember.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
Whether you’re dreaming of a lakeside elopement, a vineyard micro-wedding, or a backyard ceremony with heart, Cherished Ceremonies would be honoured to bring your vision to life. Let’s make your wedding uniquely you—intimate, meaningful, and full of joy.
👉 Visit cherishedceremonies.ca/contact-us or call (778) 688-4273