There’s something magical about the intimacy of a small wedding. The quiet lake breeze, the shared laughter among your closest loved ones, and the absence of stress that often overshadows large-scale events. At Cherished Ceremonies, we believe that elopements and micro-weddings can be every bit as meaningful—often more so—than traditional celebrations.
Why Small Ceremonies Are on the Rise
In recent years, couples have begun redefining what “the perfect wedding” means. Rather than following convention, many are choosing to focus on connection, authenticity, and experience. The Okanagan Valley—with its serene vineyards, rolling hills, and lakeside charm—offers the perfect setting for couples who want beauty without the bustle.
Micro-weddings (typically 10–30 guests) and elopements (just the couple and perhaps a few witnesses) give couples the freedom to be present. You can share vows you’ve written from the heart, exchange knowing glances without the crowd, and savor every second together.
As Deirdre McCarvill, owner and head officiant of Cherished Ceremonies, advises: “A ceremony should reflect your story, your values, and your love — nothing cookie-cutter, just something that feels completely you.”
The Meaning Behind the Moment
A smaller ceremony allows for a deeper focus on what truly matters—the bond between two people. Without a long guest list or rigid timelines, couples can fully embrace the emotional and symbolic importance of the day.
At Cherished Ceremonies, we believe weddings aren’t just celebrations; they are transitions. They mark the moment you step into the next chapter of your shared life. Our approach ensures your ceremony feels like you: your story, your humor, your culture, and your unique connection.
The Okanagan Advantage
There’s a reason so many couples travel to the Okanagan Valley for their “I dos.” The landscapes are breathtaking, the atmosphere relaxed, and the community welcoming. Whether you imagine an intimate lakeside ceremony at Kalamalka Lake, a mountaintop moment overlooking Predator Ridge, or a sunset elopement among the vineyards, we help make it seamless.
And because small weddings require less coordination, they can be planned in weeks rather than months—making them ideal for couples who want spontaneity without sacrificing beauty.
Customization Without Compromise
At Cherished Ceremonies, every ceremony is crafted with intention. As a Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant, Deirdre blends storytelling, ritual, and authenticity to create ceremonies that truly honor your relationship. She specializes in weaving your personal journey into each moment—your values, family traditions, and even shared jokes—resulting in something unforgettable.
Whether you want to include a handfasting ritual, cultural blessings, or readings from your favorite poems, your ceremony will feel personal, heartfelt, and beautifully yours.
Why Choose a Life-Cycle Celebrant
Life-Cycle Celebrants are trained to craft ceremonies that hold emotional depth and cultural sensitivity. Deirdre’s background as a counsellor and divorce coach uniquely equips her to understand relationships at every stage. That compassion and insight are what make Cherished Ceremonies stand out.
For couples who identify as spiritual but not religious, or for those blending interfaith or multicultural traditions, Deirdre offers a safe, thoughtful space to design a ceremony that honors every aspect of who you are.
Real Benefits of Going Small
Here are just a few reasons couples love the micro-wedding and elopement experience:
Less stress, more joy. Without the logistics of a 200-person guest list, you can focus on what really matters: your love story.
Budget flexibility. Save on large-venue costs and instead invest in a dream photographer, a gourmet dinner, or a weekend getaway.
Creative freedom. Want to read your vows under a starry sky or paddle to your ceremony spot by canoe? You can.
More connection. You’ll actually have time to talk, laugh, and celebrate with each guest (or just each other).
A Ceremony That Lasts a Lifetime
Deirdre’s goal isn’t just to officiate your ceremony—it’s to create something that lives in your hearts long after the day is done. Years later, when you revisit your ceremony script, it should still move you. It should still make you smile, tear up, and remember exactly why you chose each other.
At Cherished Ceremonies, that’s what we do best: crafting unforgettable, love-filled moments that echo for years to come.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
Whether you’re dreaming of a lakeside elopement, a vineyard micro-wedding, or a backyard ceremony with heart, Cherished Ceremonies would be honored to bring your vision to life. Let’s make your wedding uniquely you—intimate, meaningful, and full of joy.